

Once you realize the power you have within you because of the God that lives inside of you, you become limitless. One of my forefront affirmations this year was simply “more,” so one of the main things I’ve been intentional about is ensuring that I am making space and allowing myself to sit in expectation for that abundance. I am prepared to receive all the good coming to me. It was powerful because in addition to being an affirmation, it doubles as accountability to show up for ourselves. I found this one about two years ago and it hasn’t left me yet. I am capable of loving myself in the ways that I want others to love me. As black women, sometimes we tend to get the short end of the dating stick and our experiences may cause us to question whether we can-or even should-be on the receiving end of those love stories.

This one’s for the certified lover girls. You’re overqualified, even, but we’ll start the year off humble. Tell yourself this before hopping onto that job interview, stepping into that meeting, applying for that grant or business loan. Imposter syndrome be DARNED, sis, the proof is in the pudding. This year I’ve made it a priority to embrace the things I’m praying for, because why ask for them if you don’t truly believe you deserve them or that you’ll get them? So, here are some of my personal affirmations that I’m taking into 2023 with me to remind myself that I am THAT girl and to take care of her:

I’m a firm believer that half the battle of chasing your dreams and reaching your goals is believing that you actually can. But the beauty in those wins is the power and prayer that have been shared to get them there. It’s evident that Black women have been raking up public wins as of late, from career dubs to personal victories.
